Fun
fact: I am getting married in June! While I was in New York for my mother’s
birthday/dress fitting, my friends organized a bachelorette party and my sister
threw me a bridal luncheon, and I had a blast at both. My friends know me
really well (slash I have a core group of activities and foods that I really
love), so the bachelorette party was basically perfect.
All
I knew when I woke up that morning was that we’d be leaving on a 10:55 train to
Manhattan, and that I wouldn’t be doing too much walking, but this was the
perfect level of information as I love
surprise parties. A good friend of mine in LA threw me a surprise birthday
party last summer (my first surprise party ever!) and I was so delighted by it!
I’d recently gotten this Bernie Dexter dress, and decided to wear it even
though (or perhaps because) it isn’t remotely bridal.
Don’t worry, my
friends provided plenty of party swag for me to wear. I thought I was getting
funny looks as I walked through Grand Central with them, but it turned out that
we passed someone that knew one of my friends.
This
was my first Bernie Dexter dress in the Veronique cut, but I’d heard a lot of
good things about it and studied the review that Lauren-Blair kindly posted before I
ordered. I have to say, the raves I’d heard were spot on: this cut is a
delight! The print is vibrant and fun, and I absolutely cannot overstate how
great the fit is. My favorite thing about this dress might be the shape of the
sleeves/straps and the neckline. The neckline is slightly lower than I might
wear to work, but that’s easily solved with a cardigan, scarf, or bandeau, or
slightly less easily solved by taking the sleeves in a tad. (Note to self: buy
some bandeaus!) The large fits me like a glove at my current measurements of
39” in the bust and 31” in the waist, and the hem falls just below my knee,
which I think is the most glorious skirt length in human history. PS: for
reference, I continue to be 5’2”. That’s unlikely to change any time soon.
Sometimes we be
sittin’ on trains…
L to R: Katie, me,
Ronnie
The
bachelorette party delegation from my hometown met my college roommate (Heidi)
and my best friend from high school (Jenny) at the Only Place to Meet People
Arriving on Metro North: the clock in Grand Central Station. Someday I might do
an entire post on the time I embarrassed myself in my first graduate seminar by
shouting out “the clock in Grand Central,” but that is not this day. Anyway,
Jenny had made clues for each activity, and the first one said something to the
effect of “our first stop will be fascinating!” I had a brief moment of “is
this a joke about fascinators?!? nahhhhh” and we boarded the train downtown.
My sister is a human
selfie stick.
L to R: Ronnie,
Katie, me, Jenny, Heidi
Turns
out my first instinct was right! Katie, who is the mother of my godchildren and
a friend since birth, had gotten the idea and found a place that does bespoke
hairpieces and group hairpiece-making classes! She had also gotten bagels and
champagne, which made it even more perfect, since everything is better if you
have food and champagne too. I had so much fun making my fascinator. It was
also super neat to see how strongly everyone’s personal style came through in
the pieces they made. We wore them for the whole rest of the weekend!
The coolest people wear glasses with their glasses.
After
that, we stopped for coffee and then went to an old favorite of mine and
Heidi’s: B-Side. We were pretty much the only people there, since it was early
afternoon. When we got there, the last half of Men in Tights (a favorite of
mine from way back) was on, and after it ended, the bartender put on the Force
Awakens, which blew my mind because no one had requested it and I’m obsessed
with Star Wars. I’m taking it as an omen that the universe bestows its blessing
on my marriage ;).
I’m actually not
totally sure when this photo was taken, but it looks like the face I probably
made when Star Wars came on the TV, so let’s call this a shot from B-Side.
After
a while, it was time to eat, so Jenny handed me a pizza brooch she’d made and
directions to a yummy pizza restaurant. I forgot to take any pictures of the
brooch, card, and food, because I was too gung-ho on pizza, but we did stop on
the way to take a few photos:
Can you guess who
Jenny is pretending to be?
(Also, how did I not notice how cool her boots were until just now?!?)
Then
this happened:
And
we went to karaoke! I posted a video from this on my Instagram, but since it
was dark and karaoke time is Serious Business, I didn’t do much photography
here either. Instead, I picked a zillion songs, was the loudest one in the room
even when my friends had mics and I did not, and lost my voice. To me, that’s
successful karaoke!
We
all went back to my hometown together, since my bridal luncheon was the next
day, and most of us took photos of Ronnie, who is a lifelong teetotaler, asleep
on the train. For the sake of her dignity, I’m not posting those, though I did show them to my entire family the
next day.
Tl;dr:
my friends are awesome and picked super fun surprises!!
What
was the best party anyone has ever thrown in your honor?
Thanks for the shoutout! It looks awesome on you! Sounds like you had a blast (bagels and champagne as basically my favorite things ever)! I love that group shot of y'all with you looking up at your crew. Nobody has been able to pull off a surprise party in my honor without me catching on ;) Haha.
ReplyDeleteThank YOU for writing a wonderful review of this dress! This style is tied with the Kelly for my favorite Bernie style, I think… though the Chelsea is a strong contender as well. It was a lovely party! Katie never goes anywhere without champagne, haha. I love that group shot too -- lifelong friends are such a special thing :).
DeleteI'm really easy to surprise, since I'm pretty gullible (or to put a positive spin on this, I'm trusting of the people I'm close with!). Has anyone ever managed to surprise you??