tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post2676039332211959152..comments2024-01-17T04:45:56.246-08:00Comments on Thoroughly Modern Emily: On Haters, AgainEmilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-85605410147056351472017-08-29T20:35:57.017-07:002017-08-29T20:35:57.017-07:00It's difficult, but I tried and tried. It just...It's difficult, but I tried and tried. It just didn't seem worth it to me. <br /><br />And thank you <3Evetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14473652657925310490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-82752672609453537972017-08-29T20:23:02.177-07:002017-08-29T20:23:02.177-07:00Thank you so much! And yes -- we'll all be hap...Thank you so much! And yes -- we'll all be happier if we follow our hearts and tune out the haters!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-55515180120394276462017-08-29T20:22:16.602-07:002017-08-29T20:22:16.602-07:00Thank you so much, Lindsey! I was excited to track...Thank you so much, Lindsey! I was excited to track this dress down at long last. And yeah, people who need to drag someone's fashion choices are clearly unfulfilled in some major way!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-25103899360341101142017-08-29T20:21:29.860-07:002017-08-29T20:21:29.860-07:00Seriously! It makes me pity them for being so obvi...Seriously! It makes me pity them for being so obviously and clearly unhappy. And thank you so much! Hawaiian prints are totally my jam.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-35673646242033310002017-08-29T20:20:40.111-07:002017-08-29T20:20:40.111-07:00Thank you so much! And yeah, I've seen a lot o...Thank you so much! And yeah, I've seen a lot of horrible comments and troll accounts on Twitter and Insta as well...what on earth are the people who do those things missing in their lives?!?Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-50799279986559001812017-08-29T20:19:46.441-07:002017-08-29T20:19:46.441-07:00It makes me sad too, both for the people being mea...It makes me sad too, both for the people being mean and for their victims. What's the world coming to when so many people can't find happiness or inner peace without tearing others down?<br /><br />And thank you, my kind friend!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-2035425790847782732017-08-29T20:18:45.616-07:002017-08-29T20:18:45.616-07:00Thank you so much! And you will look fabulous when...Thank you so much! And you will look fabulous when you find the dress for you!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-45783210380433114682017-08-29T20:18:19.584-07:002017-08-29T20:18:19.584-07:00YES! I was definitely more judgmental when I was u...YES! I was definitely more judgmental when I was unhappier and more insecure. It's such a weird way to try to deal with those feelings, yet it's so common. But I'm with you -- the old classic of not saying anything if you've got nothing nice to say is the right attitude!<br /><br />And thank you so much! I love botanical prints and leafy green vines equally ;).Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-13008620906910938982017-08-29T20:16:44.601-07:002017-08-29T20:16:44.601-07:00Thank you so much! I can't believe it took me ...Thank you so much! I can't believe it took me so long to realize that negative people are negative because of their own issues, and not anything I've done. Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-35772378009890623742017-08-29T20:15:43.267-07:002017-08-29T20:15:43.267-07:00Aw, thank you so much! I don't have many dress...Aw, thank you so much! I don't have many dresses with a black background but I've always loved black and hot pink together! And it is really sad that some people have nothing to offer but negativity, isn't it?Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-38969029738614478652017-08-29T20:15:00.440-07:002017-08-29T20:15:00.440-07:00I'm so glad you've reached that point wher...I'm so glad you've reached that point where you listen to yourself and not others' opinions! Self-assurance is such a valuable thing to develop. I hope people who aren't at that point yet are able to hear this message and get just a little more able to tune out the negativity.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-86856819025374333172017-08-29T20:13:14.667-07:002017-08-29T20:13:14.667-07:00I hope it helps you to silence those doubts just a...I hope it helps you to silence those doubts just a little bit <3. Meanness *always* says more about the person being mean than the target. No matter what you're wearing, there's NEVER cause to pick on someone about it. Take it from the girl who wears a petticoat on the regular! Anyone who takes issue with what you're doing just isn't confident enough to focus on their own life.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-18924336063622626382017-08-29T20:11:31.597-07:002017-08-29T20:11:31.597-07:00That's such a massive compliment <3 thank y...That's such a massive compliment <3 thank you! Honestly, I only came to this realization when I started to feel really confident and happy, and noticed that I wanted to tell people who were doing something I liked that they were awesome instead of nitpicking people for doing things I wouldn't choose. I hope you feel a bit less nervous knowing that anyone who says anything to you is just an unhappy jerk!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-60850175116321856832017-08-29T20:09:31.693-07:002017-08-29T20:09:31.693-07:00YES! YES! This is spot on, my friend! If you don&#...YES! YES! This is spot on, my friend! If you don't like something, just keep scrolling. You don't need to tell people that you dislike their taste! I don't understand people who feel the need to tear into others. And when it comes to actual statements of opinions, I'll speak up when it's important or if someone is being attacked, but otherwise, I've learned it's often futile to engage.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-55323244889747529582017-08-29T20:07:43.394-07:002017-08-29T20:07:43.394-07:00I have to say, I noticed that about you! I had no ...I have to say, I noticed that about you! I had no idea anything was going on until you told me, and after that I marvelled at how mature you were in never saying a negative thing about your ex on social media. That's true class, my friend <3.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18317728664231218677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-70823014788401808842017-08-26T02:27:18.595-07:002017-08-26T02:27:18.595-07:00I love your outfit and I couldn't agree more -...I love your outfit and I couldn't agree more - we shouldn't really care that much about others!<br />Have an amazing day!<br />xx Kris<br /><br />https://dreamingofpink.wordpress.comKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17271213271300725579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-10969853429482399132017-08-25T13:40:50.843-07:002017-08-25T13:40:50.843-07:00I could not agree with this more! If someone is go...I could not agree with this more! If someone is going out of their way to make you feel bad because of your clothing choices..they are clearly not happy with themselves. But, on a positive note...Your dress is fabulous, Emily! I seriously love the print and neckline!!Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05809931732455701147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-3050701371184632882017-08-24T14:09:56.661-07:002017-08-24T14:09:56.661-07:00completely agree. If someone is happy and secure i...completely agree. If someone is happy and secure in themselves they wouldn't feel the need to put others down. I love the dress BTW!<br /><br />Hannah @ The Northern Writes | www.thenorthernwrites.co.uk<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07063437976647288309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-81822450329720092862017-08-24T11:35:41.819-07:002017-08-24T11:35:41.819-07:00I love the dress. You look absolutely fantastic in...I love the dress. You look absolutely fantastic in it! I have not experienced it either but I have seen some pretty violent reaction to curve models on twitter... OMG... xx corinneAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02281193171391000416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-82173555195294992762017-08-24T11:29:05.473-07:002017-08-24T11:29:05.473-07:00I couldn't agree more with this post! It hones...I couldn't agree more with this post! It honestly makes me so incredibly sad that most people these days have just forgotten how to be nice to each other 😭💖 ps your dress is beautiful and so are you 💖Kim K Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07650644808311082745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-29890097310728329692017-08-24T11:05:52.978-07:002017-08-24T11:05:52.978-07:00You have absolutely fabulous style!!! Wishes i cou...You have absolutely fabulous style!!! Wishes i could carry off the vintage look!! Just haven't found the right dress yet!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02496302265129335422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-78167142759944545432017-08-24T10:05:52.820-07:002017-08-24T10:05:52.820-07:00I notice this too, the people who are quick to thr...I notice this too, the people who are quick to throw rude or hurtful comments out are usually the ones who are unhappy in life themselves. I've noticed it with myself before as well, when I was in a bad place about five years or so ago, I was extremely judgemental of other people. I suppose it's a way of people soothing and building up their own egos. It's not nice though, and the classic saying, 'if you've got nothing nice to say don't say it' is very important. <br /><br />Also, I love your dress and I love the way you've been photographed by plants as it mimics the print on the dress. <br /><br />Brilliant post, a very honest read.<br /><br />Beth | <a href="www.quirksandqueries.com" rel="nofollow">Quirks and Queries</a>Bethany Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15673639702098550472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-77171177890567845782017-08-24T09:50:35.948-07:002017-08-24T09:50:35.948-07:00This post is everything! Well written and truthful...This post is everything! Well written and truthfully told! Some people can be so ugh but I agree with you in questioning. Keep doing you girl - looking amazing as always!<br /><br />Jessica & James | www.foodandbaker.co.uk / www.foodandbakertravels.co.ukFood & Bakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12545513073527544489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-60182843421791004822017-08-24T09:34:57.649-07:002017-08-24T09:34:57.649-07:00Hi, I love the dress I think it's my favourite...Hi, I love the dress I think it's my favourite so far. It's so sad that people feel that have to write nasty comments, enjoy what you wear and continue to look great, Chloe.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01043251681143570503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-40657211281649935.post-66125885602133848812017-08-24T09:34:08.310-07:002017-08-24T09:34:08.310-07:00Thank you for writing this post, I've definite...Thank you for writing this post, I've definitely got caught up in the opinions of other people before and questioned myself, luckily I've come to the point where I'm more confident and self assured but this isn't the case for everyone. I love how this post validates and uplifts, and most importantly, teaches a great lesson. <br />Another great post! <br /><br />Rumaanah x <br /><br />- https://ruminvte.wordpress.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com